6 NOV 1881 - Westmoreland, VA
8 MAR 1967 - Coles Point, Westmoreland, VA
Elizabeth Catherine "Bessie" Allen
Bessie Allen >> Thelma Barnes >> Frances Franklin >> Mark DameronBessie was born in Westmoreland but raised in Washington, DC. She raised her four children in the Northern Neck.

Because of the loss of the 1890 census, the first record Bessie Allen appears on is the 1900 census when she is already 18 years old. Her father is working as a "motorman." Her brother Russell is 15 and working as a salesman at a fruit stand. The younger brother Russell is 9 and is in school. Everyone in the family can read and write. Their home is rented, not owned.
On January 6th, 1904 Bessie married John Edward “Eddie” Barnes in Washington D.C. Perhaps they met when her parents were visiting friends and family back in Westmoreland. They stayed in Washington, DC for a little while after getting married because their first child was born there on January 3rd, 1905, Thelma Frances “Meme” Barnes. They might have been staying with Bessie's parents. William Parker “Billy Boy” Barnes was born soon after on June 15th, 1906 in Virginia.
The 1910 census shows the family in Westmoreland, VA in the Cople magisterial district on the main road between Hague and Coles Point. Eddie’s profession is sailor on a freight vessel. He is noted as owning his own home mortgage free. On May 9th, 1912 James Lester Barnes was born into the family. The last child, Elizabeth Catherine “Catnee” Barnes was born on July 15th, 1914.
On the 1920 census the family appears to be living in the same place, but no road is given. Eddie is still listed as a sailor.
The 1930 census still places the family in the Cople magisterial district of Westmoreland County. Thelma and William have grown up and moved from home. Eddie’s occupation is as a waterman in the oyster industry. Lester is listed as a laborer in the oyster industry. Bessie’s mother, Sallie F. Allen age 76, is listed as living with the family as a permanent guest. She may have moved in with them because of poor health. Granny has said that her brother George who was born in 1927 had vague memories of her in a bed or a wheelchair and for some reason he threw a fish at her.
In the 1940 census the youngest two children still lived with Bessie and Eddie although each had gotten married. Eddie’s occupation was given as captain of a freight vessel. Lester was married to Virginia Z., he was listed as being unemployed and looking for work as a waterman in the oyster and crab industry. Catnee was married to Samuel P Trader, he was employed as a carpenter in the building construction industry. This census for also asked for the highest level of education, Eddie is noted as completing 7th grade, Bessie completed the first year of high school, Lester completed two years of high school and Catnee finished 3 years of high school.
In the 1950 census Eddie and Bessie were marked as living alone and each being 68 years old. Eddie reported working 32 hours the previous week and the job appears to be listed as "corn oystering."
Eddie died on October 20th, 1954 and was buried at Carmel United Methodist Church in Kinsale. Bessie passed away on March 8th, 1867. Her cause of death was an acute coronary occlusion, or blockage of artery leading to heart. She is buried beside Eddie.
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About my grandmother Bessie Barnes, I remember her as a lady who was sort of quiet but willing to talk if you started a conversation with her. She loved animals, especially their dog Buddy. He was a very settled and laid around their home like another person. He always laid in the floor and we had to always step over him.When they were older and my grandfather passed away, she would never stay at home alone. After that she would pack her bag and either stay with my Aunt Catherine Trader or my mother. By then I was married and Momee and Popee would go away on trips occasionally and my grandmother would stay with Gramps and me. It was during one of those times that she told me about my mother’s first marriage, which I had never heard before.
I also recall that we had added on two new bedrooms and I was so glad I could offer her a bedroom of her own.. Then I learned that she was paying Your father 25 cents to sleep in the room with her so she wouldn’t be alone. She would walk around at night and look out of the windows and talk about how dark it was. Also while she was ok with country life, I think she missed Baltimore where she grew up.
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- 1904 Marriage
- 1909 Visit from Susie Courtney
- 1916 Coles Point School
- 1927 Fire
- 1936 Visit Mrs. M.C. Courtney
- 1938 Sick
- 1943 Visit Meme
- 1943 Visit From Meme
- 1944 Hospital
- 1950 Visit Meme
- 1951 Sick
- 1951 Visit From Nettie Palmer
- 1951 Visit Meme
- 1952 Visit Meme
- 1954 Visit Mrs. Ryland Packett
- 1954 Visit Maryland
- 1955 Visit Meme and Granny
- 1955 Mother's Day Party
- 1955 Sick
- 1955 Hospital
- 1956 Visit Meme
- 1956 Visit Meme
- 1956 Visit Meme and Granny
- 1956 Visit Meme
- 1956 Visit Meme
- 1957 Visit Meme
- 1957 Visit Meme
- 1957 Visit Meme
- 1957 Sick
- 1957 Death of Brother
- 1958 Visit Meme
- 1958 Visitors
- 1958 Visit From Meme
- 1958 Visit White Stone
- 1958 Visit Meme
- 1958 Visit Meme
- 1958 Rent Home
- 1959 Visit Meme
- 1959 Visit Meme
- 1959 Visit Meme
- 1959 Visit Meme
- 1959 Visit Maryland
- 1959 Visit Meme
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- Year: 1900; Census Place: Washington, Washington, District of Columbia; Roll: 162; Page: 18B; Enumeration District: 0096; FHL microfilm: 1240162
- Year: 1910; Census Place: Cople, Westmoreland, Virginia; Roll: T624_1651; Page: 11B; Enumeration District: 0121; FHL microfilm: 1375664
- Year: 1920; Census Place: Cople, Westmoreland, Virginia; Roll: T625_1918; Page: 1A; Enumeration District: 156; Image: 53
- Year: 1930; Census Place: Cople, Westmoreland, Virginia; Roll: 2464; Page: 11B; Enumeration District: 0001; Image: 213.0; FHL microfilm: 2342198
- Year: 1940; Census Place: Cople, Westmoreland, Virginia; Roll: T627_4301; Page: 9A; Enumeration District: 97-1
- 1950 United States Federal Census, Virginia, Westmoreland, Cople, 97-1, Page 13, Line 13, Ancestry.com. 1950 United States Federal Census [database on-line]. Lehi, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2022.
- District of Columbia, Select Marriages, 1830-1921
- U.S., Find A Grave Index, 1600s-Current
- Virginia, Death Records, 1912-2014
Parents:
- John Parker Allen
1856-1933
- Sarah Frances Hardwick
1854-1933
1856-1933
1854-1933
Spouse & Children:
- John Edward Barnes
1881-1967
- Thelma Frances Barnes
1905-2000
- William Parker Barnes
1906-1951
- James Lester Barnes
1912-1970
- Elizabeth Catherine Barnes
1914-1999
- John Edward Barnes
1881-1967
- Thelma Frances Barnes
1905-2000
- William Parker Barnes
1906-1951
- James Lester Barnes
1912-1970
- Elizabeth Catherine Barnes
1914-1999
Siblings:
- Edgar William Allen
1891-1947
- Russell Audlay Allen
1895-1957
1891-1947
1895-1957